The other day, during a family get-together, we started talking about the American elections and how Hillary lost to Obama. “It shows how even Americans are not ready for a woman to take charge”, one of my relatives said. It got me to thinking, is that really why Hillary lost? I don’t think anybody has a definitive answer, but if that’s the case, why are women still not being taken seriously in domains such as politics? Now regardless of whether Hillary is the better choice or not, her being a woman should NOT be a factor of why she should or shouldn’t be elected.
“Women are just more emotional, it compromises their ability to make decisions.” I’ve heard this over and over again, and people, especially in our part of the world, use it automatically to justify denying women certain positions.
OH GIVE ME A BREAK! So women may be more expressive of their emotions, but how exactly does that compromise their ability to make decisions? How exactly does that make them unfit to be presidents, judges or CEOs? Men are more violent and hotheaded. Wouldn’t that compromise their actions more seriously? But no, the laws made by men would naturally excuse men, such as the “fit of fury” loophole handed to men on a silver platter in honor crimes.
Also, if women are more emotionally sensitive, why is it that women are always the subject of violence, from domestic abuse, to rape, to sexual harassment, all of which are committed by men! You’d think men would take into consideration all their “sensitive” emotions.
The way I see it, men who say that women are unfit to handle positions of power are insecure to handle being subordinates to a woman who endangers everything they’ve been taught to believe: that women are weaker and inferior. Well wake up and smell the roses, women ARE successful thinkers, women ARE successful judges and women ARE successful in politics. If anything, a woman who is able to reach such positions is more competent than a man, simply because of all the sexist crap she has to deal with.
P.S. By men, I do not mean ALL men. Just the sexist, chauvinistic ones. 🙂